Kevin Costner and Christine Baumgartner’s divorce has been finalized. Here’s a complete timeline of their almost 20-year marriage and split.

Kevin Costner

Kevin Costner and Christine Baumgartner’s divorce was finalized in February 2024.
The couple, who tied the knot at Costner’s Colorado ranch, were married for 19 years.
Child support payments for their three teenagers became an issue during their divorce proceedings.

and his wife’s acrimonious split in 2023 exemplified a year rife with messy celebrity divorces.

The “Yellowstone” star’s wife, Christine Baumgartner, filed for divorce in May 2023, citing “irreconcilable differences.” In the months following, the two battled it out in court over child support payments and the terms of their prenup; they appeared to be headed for a contentious trial until they reached a settlement agreement in September.

Here’s everything you need to know about the couple’s almost two decades long relationship and how their divorce played out.

The Academy Award-winning director and actor was practicing his birdies and his bogeys ahead of starring as a golf prodigy in the 1996 romantic comedy when he and Baumgartner, who is 19 years his junior, were introduced. At the time, she was working as a model.Costner, meanwhile, was married to his first wife, Cindy Silva, who he had met and wed while still in college.During their 16-year marriage, they welcomed three children: Annie, 39, Lily, 36, and Joe, 35.Upon the dissolution of their marriage in 1994, Costner had several other relationships before he and Baumgartner married.He had a brief relationship with Bridget Rooney, with whom he fathered a son named Liam, 26, and also reportedly dated political activist Birgit Cunningham and supermodel Elle MacphersonThe two began dating soon after they ran into each other, several years after their first encounter.Speaking to People in 2003, Costner recalled: “We exchanged numbers, and I told her that I would — did she mind if I called her in two weeks. I did not realize that was like an insult to a woman.”

According to the “Field of Dreams” actor, they called it quits for a time due to a difference of opinion when it came to having kids.While Costner, already a dad of four, didn’t want any more children, for Baumgartner, becoming a mom was a deal breaker.Reflecting on their separation while chatting to Parade in 2008, Costner said: “For years, fear kept me from marrying Christine. Christine wanted a child, but I was afraid I couldn’t be an effective father.”However, he said that he was able to quieten his worries to make their relationship work.”I woke up and thought, ‘Am I going to lose a beautiful woman who is willing to be with me to my very last breath because I am afraid to say yes to a child?'” he said.”That’s all it took,” he said. “I decided that I was not going to miss out on love.”

The couple married in a ceremony at the actor-director’s sprawling 165-acre ranch just outside of Aspen, Colorado on September 25, 2004. According to People, Costner arrived in a horse-drawn carriage while his bride made her journey to the riverside ceremony in a vintage green pickup truck.CBS reported that there were over 300 guests in attendance, and People said that the guest list included Tim Allen and Don Johnson.

The allegations against Costner — which came to light in 2006 — did not result in any criminal complaints against the actor. Instead, the former spa worker sued her employer for unfair dismissal and sexual discrimination (she later settled the case).The woman claimed that Costner exposed himself and carried out a sex act as she gave him the massage at the Old Course Hotel in Fife, Scotland, according to CBS News. According to The Guardian, Costner and Baumgartner were staying at the hotel as he was playing in the nearby Dunhill links pro-celebrity golf championship The woman said that her allegations were not taken seriously by hotel staff, which is why she filed the claim to a British employment tribunal, per CBS News. Costner identity was initially kept anonymous in the lawsuit, but tribunal chairman Nicol Hosie allowed his name to be made public .After this, his spokesman at the time released a statement. He said: “This was never about Kevin Costner. It is a dispute between a hotel and an ex-employee.”

In the early 2000s, Baumgartner founded the label Cat Bag Couture, which makes designer laptop cases .Speaking to the Denver Post in 2005, she said: “When I came up with some samples, I showed them to Kevin, and he said they were beautiful and amazing.”She continued: “He told me I should take it to the next step and he’d help me. I’ve always loved fashion and style, and if you can mix it with function, it’s perfect.

First was their son Cayden, born in May 2007. At the time, Costner was 52 and expressed worries about being an older dad. “I hope I have as much energy for Cayden as I had for my first,” he told People, adding that he had fears that “someone [else] will raise him, meaning that my life will end prematurely.””I won’t get to coach him in what I think it is to be a man. I’d like to be the person that tells him about life.” Baumgartner then gave birth to their second son, Hayes, in February 2009. They welcomed their third child together, a daughter named Grace, in June 2010.

In an interview with People in June 2020, the “Bodyguard” actor spoke about what it was like to take a step back from acting while everything was shut down because of the COVID-19 pandemic.”Our partnership has really come into focus about what we do for each other and how we deal with our family,” he said of Baumgartner. Our house is like a river: You’ve just got to get into the flow of it. And whatever you thought it was going to be, maybe it still can, but it’s going to have to work with what the day brings.

Costner won the award for best actor in a drama series for his performance as John Dutton in “Yellowstone” at this year’s Golden Globes but was unable to attend the ceremony due to severe flooding at his home in Santa Barbara, California.” Nobody’s sadder than us that we can’t be there at the Golden Globes,” Costner said in an Instagram video posted before the awards show began. “Chris had a beautiful dress, I was looking forward to walking down the red carpet with her. “Elsewhere in his speech, he mentioned “how bad Chris wanted to support me,” and explained that his wife had organized a last-minute viewing party for the family at home.”She went out and bought me some gold and yellow and black and silver balloons, and so we’re able to sit at the television and see what happens,” Costner said.

A representative for Costner, 68, confirmed the news to the Los Angeles Times on Tuesday, which comes five months shy of the couple’s 19th wedding anniversary. A statement on behalf of the actor said: “It is with great sadness that circumstances beyond his control have transpired which have resulted in Mr. Costner having to participate in a dissolution of marriage action. “”We ask that his, Christine’s, and their children’s privacy be respected as they navigate this difficult time,” the rep added TMZ reported that Costner has hired celebrity divorce attorney Laura Wasser, who recently represented Kim Kardashian in her divorce from Ye, and has helped countless other A-listers reach divorce settlements over the years According to the outlet, Baumgartner has asked for joint custody of their three kids who are now 15, 14, and 12. Costner responded to the petition, also requesting joint custody of the children. news comes amid some drama in Costner’s professional life too Since February, the future of his hit Paramount Network drama, “Yellowstone,” has been brought into question amid rumors of a behind-the-scenes fallout between the actor and the show’s creator Taylor Sheridan. He has yet to address the claims.

According to court papers obtained by Insider, Costner said Baumgartner had outright refused to vacate his Santa Barbara home, even though she signed a prenuptial agreement promising to move out within 30 days if they divorced. “Christine has taken the position that she will not move out of Kevin’s separate property residence unless and until Kevin agrees to various financial demands,” Costner’s court papers read. Through his lawyer, the famed divorce attorney Laura Wasser, the 68-year-old actor alleged that he’s already ponied up $1 million for his estranged wife to put toward a new place and that he gave her an additional $200,000 in the early years of their marriage under the terms of their prenup. However, Baumgartner hit back at Costner’s claims, accusing the veteran actor of having no legal basis for trying to kick her — and their three children — out of the only home that the kids had ever known. Costner then clarified that their children, for whom he’s seeking joint custody, would always have a home with him. A judge has not yet ruled on delaying the hearing or whether to bar Baumgartner from Costner’s compound.

After a judge sided with Costner and ordered Baumgartner to find a new place to live by the end of the month, the multimillionaire’s legal team requested Baumgartner to pay up to recoup the costs of the legal actions against her to get her to vacate his home. a filing reviewed by Insider, they requested she pay $99,225, plus $29 for a filing fee.In other words, because Costner had to go through the legal headache of getting Baumgartner out, and the courts ruled in his favor, she owes him for the associated legal costs he ran up, his team argued. A ruling has not yet been made on Costner’s request.

Costner said he was faithful during their 18-year marriage after Baumgartner’s legal team requested documents “relating to any extramarital romantic relationships,” in a new court filing obtained by Entertainment Tonight and People. Attorneys for the mother-of-three filed new court documents on August 21 that included exhibits in which Baumgartner’s legal team asked Costner to supply documents pertaining to any “expenses paid by you, or any person at your request or on your behalf, relating to any extramarital romantic relationships.”Costner’s legal team responded that the actor “has no responsive documents for ‘extramarital romantic relationships’ in which he engaged because he engaged in none,” said the outlets. , per the reports, Costner’s team said that the actor “does not know for a fact” if Baumgartner “engaged in any ‘extramarital romantic relationships’ before separation and, if so, whether she spent any of his money or charged any expenses in furtherance of her affair(s) on credit cards he paid.The actor’s legal team also argued that Baumgartner’s request for such documents was “for purposes of harassment,” as well as “burdensome” and “oppressive,” said the People report.

As Insider previously reported, Baumgartner had requested $248,000 per month to maintain the lifestyle the couple’s three children were used to, before lowering the request to $217,300 per month.Costner’s legal team, meanwhile, sought to enforce the terms of the couple’s prenuptial agreement and pay “an amount not to exceed $51,940 per month.”On top of this, they said Costner would also contribute “100% of the children’s health insurance costs, the youngest child, Grace’s, private school tuition, the minor children’s extracurricular expenses, the hunting club fees, the expenses related to Cayden’s car.”On July 11, the child support payment dispute was settled after a Santa Barbara County judge ordered Costner to pay $129,755 per month — half of what Baumgartner was requesting but still far more than what he was willing to part with.

“Kevin and Christine Costner have come to an amicable and mutually agreed upon resolution of all issues pertaining to their divorce proceedings,” the couple said in a joint statement released by the actor’s publicist, Arnold Robinson, on September 20.A judge in Santa Barbara County acknowledged the settlement at a hearing that neither the ex-couple nor their attorneys even attended.The agreement ended what had already become a contentious court fight. It allowed the couple to avoid the high profile drama of a trial that had been scheduled for December in a Santa Barbara County, California court.

Costner and Baumgartner’s marriage officially ended on February 16, 2024, a judgment entered in Santa Barbara County court showed, according to court records obtained by AP News.Their legal separation came nine months after Baumgartner filed for divorce in May 2023. It marked the end of their acrimonious split that repeatedly made headlines and came to exemplify a summer rife with messy celebrity divorces.